Often times it's easy to slip and become trapped into the victimization of life's circumstances. It's a scary, lonely, depressing and difficult place to find yourself in. But you don't have to be caught in its sticky, toxic web forever.
Work on moving forward. Don't allow specific people or past experiences to control, dictate, define or limit who you truly are. The goal is to become your very best self... and that can't happen if you're continually hanging on, letting your past infiltrate and take over your full potential.
I'm working on it too- everyday.