Hi there!
My name is JACY and I’ve found myself on the most
incredible of journeys.
I'm a mom to the coolest Little Dude ever, I'm overcoming painful and life changing trials, I've become a pioneer woman and I survived divorce, I'm currently building a healthy relationship (and have fallen in love) with my “man friend”, I'm figuring out how to trust again, I'm in the process of doing something remarkable, I try to remind myself that I can do hard things, I'm reclaiming my self-worth, I'm witnessing miracles with my own eyes, and I'm crossing paths and making friends with truly amazing women along the way!
I'm a mom to the coolest Little Dude ever, I'm overcoming painful and life changing trials, I've become a pioneer woman and I survived divorce, I'm currently building a healthy relationship (and have fallen in love) with my “man friend”, I'm figuring out how to trust again, I'm in the process of doing something remarkable, I try to remind myself that I can do hard things, I'm reclaiming my self-worth, I'm witnessing miracles with my own eyes, and I'm crossing paths and making friends with truly amazing women along the way!
What started as a little project to document my story, this
blog has since turned into something much more meaningful in my life and I couldn't be happier about its evolution! You see, this blog is no longer just about me. It's about US. It’s about connection; a connection that is undeniably present
when you open your eyes and heart to the experiences of others. It’s about uniting and supporting and loving and inspiring and becoming a
better and more compassionate human being in the meantime. It’s about rediscovering
yourself and never, ever (no matter what!), giving up hope! It’s about genuinely believing that
happiness, love and beauty can and DO exist, even if your life doesn’t go as planned.
If you’re new here, WELCOME! I'm so glad that you've stumbled upon my little spot in cyberspace and I hope to get to know you better!
** If you're interested in knowing what my blog name and logo signifies, you can find out here.
** If you're interested in knowing what my blog name and logo signifies, you can find out here.

You rock, Jacy!
ReplyDeleteAnd I love being here :)
Thank you Niken... I'm glad you love it here because I love having you here!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteHellOoo Jacy :)
ReplyDeleteThankyou for your comment on my blog the other day. :) It was a lovely little note. Thankyou for following me and I'm your new follower too.
You are b'ful and hope you have a super life ahead :)
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Tanuja :)
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Your so honest open I have visited your site before. YOU have a beautiful glow. My glow is gone right now. My husband has dealt with porn issues early in marriage and then acted out with his first affair in 2005. I use to own his problems but then I found my self through the lds 12 steps for spouse support group. I stopped owning and started living. I tried to love him but he just always seem to blame me for his problems. But I was living and my 6 kids brought me so much joy the sacrifice to stay with him was worth it. Now I am not to sure. I knew something was wrong and really could not figure out what it was. He acted like he was absent again. Swore up and down there is no one else but god has shown me the truth. I don't want to go into to many details I am just so exhausted from the pain but he cheated on me with my best friend. Yep!! I still sit in shock. I hurt so bad but it's complicated and just wanted to reach out and say thank you for having your site. If I can't get over this and need to move on I sure will because I feel God knows all and he will show me the path I need to take.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, thank you so much for your sweet smile and your upbeat writing. Sometimes when these things happen we feel no one understands and it's just nice to see that others deal with big things too.
In the name I wrote can't say because for now I want to be not known.
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DeleteI am SO sorry for your pain... my heart ached as I read your words. Please know that you are not alone and that you will conquer this -whichever way it turns out- and you will be stronger than before.
I hope and pray that you AND your husband are in counseling- you will both need mammoth support, advice and strength it is.
Thank you for your sweet comment and know that I read every single word. I don't have the time right now that I'd like to spend on it this, but I wanted you to know that you were heard... and that I am so glad you are hear! Please make yourself at home... comment whenever... ask questions...
I know what the shock feels like... and the loneliness... and unless you've been through it, you can't get it. I get it... you do too... I promise you, you will be okay. Become a pioneer woman... Like in my pioneer post... learn to rely and depend on YOU as much as possible. This will be challenging whatever you decide... but remember that there is always hope and happiness- always.
Love you!
p.s. I understand the anonymity :)
Jacy
Still in shock as you read the time. Thank you for taking the moment to write back. I do rely on god for every need and he meets them and i am so much stronger this time around but my gosh I am still in shock that my best friend and he betrayed me like this right in front of me with our family parties our family's were so close. Anyway one day at a time and today I chose peace. In the pain of all that has come out I am seeing miraculous works by god even though it is still so unreal. I can live in the moment with my kids and with a few people I trust.
ReplyDeleteI will be a pioneer. To get my glow back with make the work worth it.